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Erma Bombeck said something that pretty much defines my approach to life.... "When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and I could say, "I used everything you gave me." If you switch the word TALENT for LOVE or LAUGHTER or HAPPINESS....it still stands.
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you. rock.
i got bell’s palsy in college (which is a little like having a stroke if only in the appearance department) and i’m STILL not ready to talk about it. that was a scary time.
you’re handling all of this so much better than i ever did.
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I, for one, would have loved a boob shot. You look great! I wish I were going to be in NY to give you a hug.
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you fucking rock. so brave and so inspiring. but seriously? im kinda bummed that we didn’t get a boob shot.
DOOD! You look amazing! I mean, the hair, the patch, you are working it.
Seriously – you look great, you SOUND great, and I’m so incredibly moved by your, well, let’s call it what it is, your bravery.
Also – it will probably be nice to get the hell out of Dodge for a while and hit the streets with WHEELS. Do you KNOW the VIP places you can probably wheel into in NYC? Just thinking out loud here.
Anyway, I can’t wait to see you, meet Pete, and hand off some goodies.
Here’s to you.
Holy crap – you ROCK girl!
You are so awesome.
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Go Anissa! Enjoy NYC…wish I could be there to hug your sweet self! Thankful that we had the opportunity BlogHer09!
Love, Prayers, Virtual Hugs!
QuatroMama´s last post…Quadversations – Brooks
Wow! That video was so awesome and it is so nice to hear your voice! Your progress is amazing and I’m so proud of you. Have a great time in NYC. I can’t wait to read all about it!
OMG girl you made me cry. You are so awesome. Brave. I wish I could be in NY to meet you in person but I’m sure there will be another occasion someday.
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You look amazing to me, my dear. I wish I were going to New York, I hope you all have an amazing time.
And… No boobs? I can’t believe you held out on the boobs!
Kellee´s last post…Lessons to teach my sisters-
I’m so sad I won’t be at BlogHer, but I’m so so happy to see how great you are doing! Major changes since I saw you in May! That’s awesome!
Bridget´s last post…When We Were Four
I can’t wait to meet you in person. And no bewbs? You’re teasing us. See you after two more sleeps!
@notodoyago
shab´s last post…Water Slide!
I don’t see a crooked face. I see a brave one. Just delurking to say that.
and maybe a little bedazzle to the eye patch?
Hot as ever!! And really, can we ever have too many boobs?
Sorry I won’t see ya in NYC!! Rock it, girl!
VDog´s last post…Reflection
I can’t wait to meet you.We can share coma dreams together.
Mandi Bone´s last post…NYC!
Life. It gives us gifts. Sometimes it throws rocks at us. The bottom line here is that I am so so so so happy that you are alive. That you are here to receive life’s gifts. And yes, sometimes dodge a few rocks. But you’re *here* with us and you are doing fantastic with your recovery. I.Am.Incredibly.Proud of you, Anissa.
Love to you and yours.
Yay!!!
Can’t wait to see you in New York, Girl… you are awesome!!!
(And I just wish I had those boobs. LOL)
Susan (5 Minutes for Mom)´s last post…Wordless Wednesday — Julia and a Summer Sprinkler
You fucking rock, my friend. Can’t wait to see you!
You rock, Anissa!
so glad I clicked through from my reader, your site looks awesome! You are amazing and beautiful, Anissa.
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Anissa – you are beautiful! Thanks for sharing. yourself with the world!! And according to all those who know you ~ I guess we really missed out on a couple of great boobs. Darn it … maybe next time, huh? Have a super fun trip!!
You are beautiful…always have been…always will be!
OK, I have lurked for a long time (here and on the old blog) but I am commenting for the first time ever. You are awesome. This from someone all the way in jolly olde england. You’re internationally famous!
Oh, honey! I just assaulted my computer trying to hug you. You are amazing! See you in the city.
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You’ll do great in New York! I’ll be eager to see how it goes.
Anissa I have SO MUCH love for you. You are full of win. And loveliness. Can’t wait to see you sugar.
Miss Grace´s last post…Im pretty much the boss of flying right now
Your sense of humor is awesome – you start out all serious, and then blindside us all with boob commentary. I love it.
Hey, nice job!
Good luck on your trip.
I have been lurking here and on Peyton’s page since I learned of your stroke. I am in AWE of your strength. I love seeing your updates and seeing your progress. You are amazing! Have fun in NYC. You deserve it.
Jen
But there’ll be a boob-shot in NY, right? RIGHT?!
Erica´s last post…I’m going to BlogHer! Help
What, no boob shot? Totally disappointed!
Seriously, you’re doing awesome. Can’t wait to see you!
You are beautiful. I am so impressed with you and your recovery and humor. Rock on!
You ROCK! Oh, and you’re beautiful
Inside and out.
You look amazing and sound fabulous. And, how dare you not show us two of the most fabulous boobs in the blogosphere (or so I’m told).
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We met at BlogHer last year (I was at the Ford thing with you and I even have pictures of you doing that simulation thing). I wish I was going this year. Have a blast! You look great and I cannot believe all of the progress you have made.
So good to see you and hear you! You are awesome. Have a great trip to NYC and see you there!
Fairly Odd Mother´s last post…My eyes! They burn!
Well I for one would liked to see the boobs.
Only cause I know all the biatches at BlogHer will get to see them and that is YET ANOTHER thing I will miss out on.
Kelley @ Magnetoboldtoo´s last post…The truth
You. Are BEAUTIFUL.
Lovely. This is the first time during all the pre-Blogher hoopla that I REALLY wish I was going. To meet you.
(I know you don’t know me from Adam, but I swear I’m not a creepy creepster. Not really.)
Sara Plays House´s last post…It’s Always Quiet Here
*Grin* Where’s the edit button??? I meant to say: seeing your beautiful face
makes me so grateful… Please, Anissa, you need to be my Editor!
Beautiful as ever, but seriously…no boob shot? It’s like I don’t even know you anymore.
I so wish I was going to BlogHer this year, just to hug you. Soooo. BlissDom?
xo,
Sarah
Can I just take a moment to say HOLY PROGRESS BATMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are OWNING the progress train. That biatch is YOURS.
Lookin’ good lady!!!!!
…Well…except that there was a SEVERE lack of video boobage. I expect NYC pictures to make up for that…really..pictures are the least you can do since I won’t be there and am missing out on what I can only imagine is some crazy wild fun. With lots of boob. ANYWAY… Sound like a deal?
Perfect. I await the photos!
Erin´s last post…Home Again- Home Again
Well, I have tears in my eyes! But I gotta admit I feel cheated about the
no boo-bees shot (I sent my college-age daughter a card last Halloween with two bees on the front who said: Boo!–and we’ve been calling ‘em that ever since.)
You simply rock, Anissa, and although I live 3000 miles away and certainly won’t see you in NY, just seeing your beautiful face in this video makes me shake so grateful. Why? Because you inspire me, and your writing grabs me with every word. Now go get ‘em in NY… I’m sure your name will be up in lights…
You are absolutely as beautiful as ever! No Question! ♥
I love me some Anissa boobs. They really put mine to shame. and mine are sort of trying to take over the universe.
Can’t wait to see you this weekend. YAY!
Wow – you ARE amazing! I wish I was going!
Anissa I think you look amazing!! You ARE amazing.
Michelle @ Mommy Loves Stilettos´s last post…Questions
You look amazing and are such a rockstar! Since the minute I met you as my patient, I knew you’d continue to be fabulous and do amazing things throughout your recovery. I’m so proud of you and how hard you’ve worked. Enjoy the weekend! I want to hear all about it when you get back!!!
Perfectly perfect.
I just got off the phone with satan he said that hell was indeed freezing over. NEVER have you opted to not show your rack. ( including PTA and church events). Don’t worry I am sending him mittens and a scarf. Also I am so happy to see you doing even more fabulous than the last time I saw that sexy face. I hate I am not going to blogher but since I have never been it’s kind of like I don’t know what I am missing. Plus I don’t know if I could handle sharing you with all “the others”.. You know how damn needy I am.
So awesome! Hope you have a fabulous trip to NYC!
I’m very disappointed because I was led here by Googling “hot Asian boobs.”
See you in NYC.
You’re incredible!!! I wish I could just hug you right through the computer.
A lurker de-lurking to tell you that you are just beautiful!! Too funny on the boobs, spit out my pizza goldfish on that one! It doesn’t matter to me one bit what you look like (although as I said I think you are beautiful) I admire you for your strength, determination, and especially your wit! Enjoy yourself, celebrate your life, you deserve it!
I honestly can’t believe that you are denying us boobs! Have you ever done that before? Have fun at Blogher. You have always been beautiful on the inside and out and nothing has changed.
this video? was THE AWESOME!
wish i was getting to meet you at blogher. maybe next year! have fun!!
The only reason I’m sorry to be missing BlogHer this year, is because I won’t see you.
SOOOO proud to know you.
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Pan down! Pan DOWN!
Oh. Sorry.
All this time I’ve been calling you AnEEsa.
I feel like such a boob.
Ha!
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I was told there would be boobs.
I’m outta here…
Velma´s last post…In Which the Shoe Hysteria Finally Hits Me
You are awesome! I hope to meet you in person someday, have an amaaaazing time in NYC!
The line about your bewbs made me laugh out loud, something I rarely do while on the computer.
I’m not going to be a BlogHer, sadly, but perhaps I’ll get to visit with you again somewhere else. I vote for an Atlanta get-together.
I just LOL’d for realz. Oh Anissa…..I wasn’t expecting the bewb talk
But you would not be you without mention of those bewbtastic bewbs of yours!!! Have fun in NYC!
What???!!!??? no BEWBS???? LOL.. You are gorgeous!
Hope I get to see you at BlogHer!!! I’ll be planting a bug in Michael’s ear about Extreme Makeover Home Edition!!! LOL…
Wow! That was great! So glad to see how fast your talking now, just wonderful Anissa! What a big smile that video brought to my face it was so good to see you
It is awesome you are going to New York, your incredible and that is all everyone is going to be able to think then they see you! I mean seriously, you face things head on, keep moving forward and don’t let anything hold you back! That is more then most of us can say. Have a great time!
You are beautiful.
It is wonderful to see you doing so well. WONDERFUL. Wonderful.
GOOD FOR YOU!! this was a great idea. i hope it makes you feel better about seeing everyone. I think you look and sound fabulous! You’ve been through the war & back again and YOU WIN! amazing, as always!
love love love love – and I didn’t even have the sound on because well it wouldn’t fit in the environment I’m currently in. Will have to watch with the sound on later. I’m definitely pulling your blog up next time I visit my mom. And I’m with the commenter who said that Peter was her introduction to the awesomeness of Anissa. I feel exactly the same way.
Anissa, lady – you are awesomeness personified.
I wish I were I blogger just so I could go to Blogher and meet you.
I’ll be content worshiping and reading you from afar.
I’m not going to BlogHer, but I wish I was just to meet you. I know sometimes you get caught up in the day to day stuggles of what you have to do differently now and the challenges you’re facing just living and being Anissa… but I just want you to know, as someone who didn’t know you very well at all before your stroke but has followed you and your husband every moment since, I’m just speechless and tearful at the fact that 8 months ago no one knew if you were going to live and here you are, blogging, video blogging… it’s just awe inspiring and I am so proud of you and so thankful for how far you’ve come. I’m sure you’re going to have many people crying when they see you at blogher. And no one is going to be crying out of sadness or pity for where you are right now in your recovery. They’re just going to be tears of joy that you’re there because that’s what I have right now. And that would have been the case even without your video preview. But I’m so glad you posted it, because I won’t be there in NY, and I’m full of joy to see you.
Bless you, Anissa. And next time? Don’t ever assume people have seen enough boobs.
Hamlet’s Mistress´s last post…Something like that… it just sticks with you
I hope I get to see you there! My husband had a major stroke six years ago and has recovered 95% of the function he lost (the only time you notice anything is if you ask him to close his eyes and walk a line heel-to-toe, which his new neurologist did a couple of months ago–I was shocked); he always asks if you’ve posted anything new when he sees me checking blogs and got misty watching this. He wants me to get you to sign my boobs, LOL! I think you look great
Wait… seriously… no boobs?
I’ve never met you…but totally look forward to the chance at BlogHer.
Colleen – amadisonmom´s last post…A BlogHer Perk
I am completely choked up! I guess that is just me though because I still see Anissa! I am so thrilled at each blog and the vlog was just even more great! I was so happy to see you had posted it. I remember when I heard about your stroke and the uncertainty of recovery… I don’t know you as well as some but I know the world would be missing a LOT without you so I am just so happy everytime you do blog and now this? Anissa, you are special. You can take that many ways and from the look of it, you are special in many different ways:)
But you have made such a difference to so many people and I am just thankful you have continued to be able to go on making those differences for your family, for your readers and for anyone you meet. When I watched the vlog, I summed it up in a few words; courage, beauty, passion, determination.
Rock on!
Tracy Solomon
ladybugkatia.com
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Pure awesomeness. I will find you at BlogHer and tell you so in person.
suzi´s last post…My Official Pre-BlogHer Freak Out Post
Holy fucking cow, girl – that took some courage! But, you look great, even with no bewb shots. Have a rocking good time at BlogHer!
I’m laughing through my tears. Thank you so much for this, as you know I won’t be able to be smothered by those boobs this week like so many others… I wish I could give you a hug, but am so thankful to see you on video. love you.
Steph
Adventures In Babywearing´s last post…Take off one thing that you dont need
Such a tease! I want to see boobs! I think we all did!
You look awesome by the way.
Alicia´s last post…Weekly Wrap-up
HOLY CRAP, YOU’RE ASIAN?!
;0)
I WISH I was going to see you in a few days. Have a blast with the girls.
xoxo
Meghan´s last post…35 Week Ultrasound
You look GREAT!! Although, the bewb shot would’ve made my day.
Have a safe trip and have fun at Blogher Beautiful Lady. *HUGS*
YOU.ARE.BEAUTIFUL!
Thank you so much for being vulnerable, open and real. I cannot wait to see you in person.
xoxox
~emily
DesignHER Momma´s last post…So two bloghers walk into a bar
You’re going to have a great time in New York. Loved the video and was so glad that you sent it out for us to see. You are communicating wonderfully and are just as funny in video as you are in writing. I’ve never met you but would love to one day.
As soon as the baby wakes up, I’m driving down to see your boobs – I feel so cheated. =) I’ve missed you so!
Wait! I’ve never seen the bewbs! And I’m not going to Blogher10…I feel so cheated! Yes, I’m cheap.
Your progress is really something else. I know you get sick of hearing the word “inspiring”, but dammit, you are. Wish I was going to NYC this week so I could meet you. Or admire you from afar.
Barnmaven´s last post…Against the tide
My sister once said that she hates the word “amazing” because of the way it is overused. I have since been very conscious of when and how I use that word. YOU, are amazing. And beautiful. Have a wonderful time in NYC. I’d hop on a Jitney from Long Island if I thought for a second I’d have a chance to meet you.
I feel the same way about “awesome”. Because some things are just…awesome. You know.
I also think you’re doing so, so amazing. I’m so proud to know you and can’t wait to wrap my arms around your neck (and boobs)! xo
We love your BEWBS!!!
So bummed that I’m not making the trip to NYC and even more bummed that I won’t get to see you. You look well and seem to be doing amazing. Safe travels to you and have fun seeing everyone.
(((hugs))) XOXO
AmazingGreis´s last post…Tomorrow…
Shocked???……I am AMAZED!! You are doing awesome. PERIOD. I learned of you and your blog unfortunetly after the stroke that caused this from Heather Spohr. You are both amazing bloggers and I hope to join your ranks some day. I just have to find time….
thanks for keeping your decency and not sharing your boobs! I am sure there will be plenty of disappointment out there but since I don’t know you like that I am glad to see you for you!
Crying at your beauty. Inside and out. I won’t see you in NYC, so I’m glad I got to see you here. Have a great time!
I saw you in March. HOLY BALLS have you come a long way since then.
SO happy to see you online and in person in TWO DAYS!!!!!!!11ONE!!!!!!11!!
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Looking good, woman! See you at BlogHer!
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Rock. Fucking. Star. That is all. I can’t wait to see you!!!
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I was kinda hoping for the booby shot lady!
The Bare Essentials Today´s last post…Oh eHarmony- how you tease me
You seem to wonder a lot about why people follow you. Today I wanted to tell you why. I had actually never heard of you before your last stroke. I kept hearing about it on Twitter and people kept linking to your husband’s updates. And I got hooked. Your husband loves you, SO MUCH. Every entry had me in tears because of that raw, deep love he expressed for you. I guess in a way I fell in love with you through reading about your husband’s love for you so I kept following you and I’ve kept following just to (silently because I never comment) cheer you on.
I think, like most of us, you forget or can’t see how loved – and thus completely lovable – you are. Sadly, this is an almost universal truth and we’re all bad at hearing that we’re loved and lovable, just as we are
Have fun in NYC!!
You look fabulous! I am kinda bummed no boob though.
I hope to get to meet you in NYC… I am a newbie, and petrified, so I may be a little overwhelmed and shy. Eeep!
Kate´s last post…What Have I Gotten Myself Into
Since this is my first time ever seeing you, I just wanted you to know that you look and sound awesome! You go rock it in NY and have a great time!
Wow, I am so sad I won’t be at blogher to see the BOOBS! You are so damn awesome Anissa and i’ll tell you what, you are so beautiful as well. Your the only woman I know that could pull the eye patch off so sexily! (word?)
xoxoxoxox
Hope you have a blast in New York! Love the two tone walls in the back ground
you look so wonderful anissa!! you really, truly do. i wish i could give you a big hug in ny, but alas, i will have to do it from afar. sending you strength and lots of kisses my dear friend!!
p.s you promised boobs, and we saw none. such a tease.
So looking forward to meeting you.
Holly {ArtistMotherTeacher}´s last post…I can’t be the only one that has discussed BlogHer with their therapist
What? No boobs?
You look mahvelous!
Beautiful!
You’ll have a great time!
Two sleeps to Anissa! See ya soon lady.
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