team parents

The fog is lifting.

It isn’t gone.

It mat never leave.

It PROBABLY won’t ever leave.

But the fog IS lifting.

The lifting of the fog comes with working together for a common goal.

it would have been a thousand time easier to have won each battle and just had my way.

It would have been so much easier. But not necessarily better.

Maybe couples would have to be kinder in the split and stop to think of other circumstances if they had been in situations like mine.

Being through years of years of cancer at Peyton’s side, through these years of strokes, coma, therapy, recovery, building, growing I have learned to never hesitate at TRUE HAPPINESS.

there is a difference between a GOOD TIME and TRUE HAPPINESS and you know them when you have them.

But I have also learned to basking in TRUE HAPPINESS does not mean ignoring the circumstances.

It really is as trite as that saying: EXPECT THE BEST BUT PLAN FOR THE WORSE.

Peter ans I don’t live in a theoretical world of single parenthood.

We live in it, VERY REAL, EVERY DAY.

We had to cool our jets, let go of our tempers and start working as the team we’ve always been.

Even though we can’t be a couple anymore, we still make one hell of a parenting team.

 

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5 Responses to team parents

  1. Kent July 23, 2012 at 2:10 AM #

    Thankfully in my case I always win ;) But then again he only steps into the picture when he wants to. And I just sit back and think to myself go ahead keep digging yourself deeper and deeper into your own hole.

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  2. Williams February 13, 2012 at 8:29 AM #

    Thats important for the kids that the parent work together. Thankfully in my case I always win ;) But then again he only steps into the picture when he wants to. And I just sit back and think to myself go ahead keep digging yourself deeper and deeper into your own hole.

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  3. Handflapper February 8, 2012 at 7:46 PM #

    My kids have my second husband to thank for the great parenting team he, my ex, his wife, and I have made. When we were talking about getting married, he said, “We WILL all get along for the sake of these children.” And we did. Divorce is never easy on anyone, but ultimately it resulted in widening the circle of people who love and care for my children, and for that, I am eternally grateful.

    It is possible to be an awesome parenting team after a marriage ends. Good luck to you, Peter, and your children.

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  5. Kristin February 6, 2012 at 8:16 PM #

    And,being one hell of a parenting team is the best way to get through this with the minimal upheaval possible. Kudos to you and Peter.

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