Some of you may be wondering about the “BIG D” and if things are still tense between Pete and I.
WE HAVE THREE CHILDREN.
Does that seem like an odd place to that sentence?
It just shows our thought process.
Before we can make a single argument or decision we have to remember that very important thing. It’s the most important thing and we have to make them the priority. The FIRST priority.
Nobody shares laughter and has been through more than Pete and I. You don’t go through what we have over and over and over again without a connection you’ll never replace.
NEITHER ONE OF US HAS THE TIME, ENERGY OR DESIRE TO BE ANGRY ALL THE TIME.
We both have to work. We have three kids. Wheelchairs suck. We’re making house construction. There’s guests coming. I’m writing a book. We made arrangement that work for us.
It’s never 100% of his want but it’s not 100% of mine. We’re meeting in the middle.
We want to be good parents.
I look at the book I’m writing and reading the words Pete wrote and know I wouldn’t be here today if he hadn’t fought for me.
Circumstances might change the elements of the relationship but nothing will ever change the depth of the bond between us.