Comments for #FreeAnissa http://freeanissa.com Wheelchairs are the new black! Tue, 07 Feb 2012 01:16:44 +0000 hourly 1 Comment on team parents by Kristin http://freeanissa.com/2012/02/team-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-10754 Kristin Tue, 07 Feb 2012 01:16:44 +0000 http://freeanissa.com/?p=4186#comment-10754 And,being one hell of a parenting team is the best way to get through this with the minimal upheaval possible. Kudos to you and Peter. And,being one hell of a parenting team is the best way to get through this with the minimal upheaval possible. Kudos to you and Peter.

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]]> Comment on who loves the kids? by Lee http://freeanissa.com/2012/02/who-loves-the-kids/comment-page-1/#comment-10751 Lee Mon, 06 Feb 2012 02:25:02 +0000 http://freeanissa.com/?p=4181#comment-10751 Hi Anissa, I have followed you from afar and am BFF's with Erin Margolin...She sent me over and well...I'm sorry that you are going through this. It sucks. Don't play games, be honest, love your kids, take care of yourself, don't beat yourself up, love yourself, love yourself, love yourself and LOVE yourself. Lee Hi Anissa, I have followed you from afar and am BFF’s with Erin Margolin…She sent me over and well…I’m sorry that you are going through this. It sucks. Don’t play games, be honest, love your kids, take care of yourself, don’t beat yourself up, love yourself, love yourself, love yourself and LOVE yourself. Lee

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]]> Comment on who loves the kids? by Jeanette http://freeanissa.com/2012/02/who-loves-the-kids/comment-page-1/#comment-10750 Jeanette Sun, 05 Feb 2012 21:06:21 +0000 http://freeanissa.com/?p=4181#comment-10750 The basis of every single decision you make needs to be whats in the kids best interest. I am just a lowly stepmother, but from my perspective, everything I've ever done with my stepchild has been based in whats best for her. She comes first, even in my marriage. The kids didn't ask for the divorce, or the chaos that comes with it. So its best to try to keep it to a minimum, even if its the right thing for you and your husband. Its a wise woman that realizes this early when all the feelings are so fresh and painful. They need both of you to remember them, and advocate for them. Disassembling a life made together is hard under the best of circumstances. We dont know each other, but Ive been following you for years, I offer you support, love, and a shoulder if you ever need it. The basis of every single decision you make needs to be whats in the kids best interest.

I am just a lowly stepmother, but from my perspective, everything I’ve ever done with my stepchild has been based in whats best for her. She comes first, even in my marriage. The kids didn’t ask for the divorce, or the chaos that comes with it. So its best to try to keep it to a minimum, even if its the right thing for you and your husband. Its a wise woman that realizes this early when all the feelings are so fresh and painful. They need both of you to remember them, and advocate for them.

Disassembling a life made together is hard under the best of circumstances.

We dont know each other, but Ive been following you for years, I offer you support, love, and a shoulder if you ever need it.

]]> Comment on how am i supposed to keep anything “private” by Barnmaven http://freeanissa.com/2012/02/how-am-i-supposed-to-keep-anything-private/comment-page-1/#comment-10745 Barnmaven Sun, 05 Feb 2012 01:49:39 +0000 http://freeanissa.com/?p=4174#comment-10745 I know how hard it has been for me the past few years to keep details of my divorce private. I have written posts that never saw the light of day - and written others that probably shouldn't have, but did anyway. So many feelings to process -raw, blistered, sad, angry, grieving, anxious, lonely, furious....its a fucking rollercoaster and if you write as a way of processing, its damn hard to escape writing about your divorce. Some will criticize, some will support, in the end I think you only need to answer to yourself for how you handle things. Thinking of you. I know how hard it has been for me the past few years to keep details of my divorce private. I have written posts that never saw the light of day – and written others that probably shouldn’t have, but did anyway. So many feelings to process -raw, blistered, sad, angry, grieving, anxious, lonely, furious….its a fucking rollercoaster and if you write as a way of processing, its damn hard to escape writing about your divorce.

Some will criticize, some will support, in the end I think you only need to answer to yourself for how you handle things.

Thinking of you.

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